It is time for the return of my “Couldn’t Have Said it Better Myself” link round-up. These lists started as a monthly “peek into my brain” as your personal Google Reader, and have since morphed to be theme-based. Rather than post monthly, I will post by topic when the mood strikes (and when a stroke of luck and good planning gives me time to sift through 70+ Google Reader feeds). The topic for this round is Networking.

Networking and I have a love/hate relationship. I love it when networking happens naturally and authentically; when it is fun, interesting and allows me to build real relationships with people. I hate networking when it feels forced, regimented, too strategic, or requires tedious small-talk. For many of the reasons on my second list, I always thought of networking as eating my spinach. I “networked” when it was convenient; not because I liked it, but because I knew it was good for me.

In the last year, largely thanks to Twitter, I have had a complete change of heart. Connecting with others in real-time (either on the phone or in person) after meeting online has been exciting, enriching and incredibly fulfilling. I am networking naturally because I enjoy it – because people are inspiring and interesting, and I am learning from them in a number of ways. Everyone has a great story to tell, and by virtue of how we meet we already seem to have a baseline of things in common. So without further ado, below are some networking articles that you will hopefully find interesting and informative.

Couldn’t Have Said it Better Myself: Networking

Guess what? I found half of these blogs through social media networking! Okay cheesy, I know, but true. Bottom line: networking doesn’t just make you friends, it makes you smarter.

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  • I know exactly how you feel, to me networking is a love/hate relationship. I love to network when I meet new people that sparks my interest and/or inspire me. I hate networking when it feels forced or insipid.

    After graduating from UCB I realized how important networking is. I've heard of the saying "It's not what you know, it's who you know", but I never believed in it till after college. When I had to apply for jobs and they would ask for referrals or references I wouldn't have great or solid ones I could put out.

    Thanks for the great list. I too follow Tina Su, I love her blog ThinkSimpleNow
  • Thanks for the comment, Thao! Tina Su's blog is amazing. She definitely emphasizes quality over quantity, which I love. I speak for myself (and I'm guessing others) when I say that my networking skills are an eternal work-in-progress. Still trying to do it in a way that is authentic and natural - which I've found works best by giving back to others instead of asking what they can do for me.
  • Kristi
    Thankyouthankyouthankyouthankyou for posting this. I too have hated networking and seen it as something like "eating my spinach". I will most certainly look through all of the links and put some of the advice into practice.
  • You're so welcome!! Let me know how it goes, and definitely share if you have any new tips to add for the rest of us who see it as eating our spinach :D
  • Jenny,

    I learned awhile back from Jonathan Fields that there's real value in filtering out great content for your readers, and I think you've put together some tremendous resources here. Thanks so much for including me on this list. I'm flattered that my content is able to rub virtual shoulders with people like Chris G and Pam Slim.

    Keep up the awesome work!

    Ryan
  • I'm not too fond of networking either. I'll do it if I have to, but I'd rather not and say I did. Like you though, I have found Twitter to be a great networking resource. Since I've been using it I've found more than a few people who are share similar interests and backgrounds and in some cases ARE LOCAL! It's great to hear about awesome people in Cali, Washington, and NYC but it's even better to know that there's plenty of awesome people in the Carolinas and Georgia as well.

    As far as the links go, "Bloggers Can Be Friends Too" is probably my favorite. Between 20sb and Twitter, I think I've found more than a few people I'd most definitely be friends with if we were geographically closer.
  • TOPolk - I totally agree. Twitter is fun for meeting people everywhere, but the really awesome value comes from meeting people who are local. It is truly unlike any other networking I have done. Seems like a great way to meet-up with people no matter where you travel too as well. Speaking of which, come out to SF sometime so we can organize a mini tweet-up for you! ;)
  • This post is so timely for me (I'm going to my first "networking" event next week). I've felt the same way as you about networking for as long as I can remember and I've had a hard time getting past the forced aspects of it all. Thank you for the links, I think they'll be a huge help for getting me through next week's event in one piece!
  • Teresa - thanks so much for your comment! And big kudos for even committing to the big networking event next week. Shoot me an email (or comment on this thread) and let me/us know how it goes!
  • Couldn't agree more! I've become pretty close to a few bloggers in the Personal Finance niche myself, and we occasionally get together for happy hours and such. Here's a clip from our last blogger meet up - good times were def. had ;)
  • J. Money! (I feel your name must always be followed by an exclamation point) - thanks for posting the link to your blogger meet up - sounds like such a blast! Now if we can combine the cupcake tweet-up with the beer & blogger meet-up, we might really be on to something. ;)
  • David - thanks for the Delicious bookmark! I loved your posts - they were so in-depth and got right to the heart of authentically connecting with people.

    Chaalz - so are you saying you actually LIKE spinach?! You crack me up. Thanks for the comment...cooky moods are the most fun...keep it up! ;-)

    Matt - have no fear, you'll be featured in a round-up soon! Until writing this, I hadn't realized the important role relationships play in personal growth. You do a great job of encouraging people to engage, interact and agree to disagree. It's a great twist on networking in the Web 2.0 era.

    Sam and Irina - Glad you enjoyed the list! And thanks for both of your posts - I thought they were great additions :D
  • Oh man...I'll never catch up with all the blog posts I have to read! So many new open tabs!

    Just by skimming, I will have to devote a lot of attention to most of these. Thanks! These look great!
  • Sam
    Wow, what a great list, this must have taken you quite a while to compile. Thank you for sharing these links! I will definitely be sure to bookmark them for later. And, thank you so much for including my post in your list, I'm honored!
  • Great list here Jenny - I shed a tear when I didn't see myself on here ;) - But honestly, these are all great resources and as you said, social networking - reading blogs, taking in new ideas and opinions, it helps you grow as an individual, and in the end, that's really what it's all about.
  • Very useful post! Love it, but to be honest, all I kept thinking while reading this post was:

    "why you gotta hate on spinach so much?"

    LOL. sorry. I'm in a cooky mood today I guess. :)

    -Chaalz
  • Hi Jenny,

    Great list of resources, I'm going to add it to my Delicious.

    Twitter is a boon to all of us, I think. You can network freely without being invasive. I love people, and it's easier than ever to get to know them beyond just the superficial level of formalities.

    Thanks for adding me to your list, I'm honored. This morning's Raptitude article also discusses connecting with people.

    I'm off to eat my spinach.
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