Happy Birthday T-Bone!

My younger brother, Tom, turns 23 today, and in lieu of a fancy present I am writing him a note on this blog. I hope it’s not too embarrassing for him. :::big smile and a wink:::

First, a little context

Tom just graduated from UCLA with big dreams of playing football in the NFL. He signed with an agent, but got injured during the first event of his 49ers tryout. I believe that dream is still possible. But instead of waiting around, letting the circumstances get him down, or furiously treading water to stay afloat while looking for an entry-level office job, my brother took the road less traveled.

Tom is starting his own company for an idea he is passionate about (which I can’t wait to share when the time is right). Through his alumni network he found incredible business partners. He filed paperwork to get a business license and become incorporated as an LLC. He has a business plan, a break-even analysis, a logo and sample products in production from manufacturers in LA and China.

I am blown away, more every day, by how real it is. It is not just talk. It is the ultimate pre-emptive strike against the woes so eloquently described by Pamela Slim in Escape from Cubicle Nation (a must-read for other entrepreneurial office-dwellers).

With that, my Happy Birthday note

T-Bone,

I am so ridiculously, incredibly, unbelievably proud of you.
Your optimism, spirit and drive are amazing.
Your attitude toward life is inspiring.
You had an idea and you went for it.
You did not let a single fear hold you back.
You built relationships with people who want to help you.
You make people laugh. All the time.
The qualities that make you great at football – strength, speed, discipline, instinct and the ability to quickly process information – will serve you very well in business.
You are smart as a whip.
You make me proud to be a Blake.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
-J-Bones

  • http://ryanstephensmarketing.com/blog/ Ryan Stephens

    1.) What an awesome birthday gift!
    2.) I would hate to be a guy that “crossed you” knowing little brother could probably snap him in half.
    3.) Jenny are you familiar with Lewis Howes. He’s a former collegiate and arena football pro who’s now pretty prevalent networker, marketer and could be an additional contact for Tom. I don’t know what his business is, but I suspect Lewis knows people from tons of different verticals.
    4.) Is he starting his business in Texas? I think everything is more likely to succeed there? Right? :)

  • http://ryanstephensmarketing.com/blog/ Ryan Stephens

    1.) What an awesome birthday gift!
    2.) I would hate to be a guy that “crossed you” knowing little brother could probably snap him in half.
    3.) Jenny are you familiar with Lewis Howes. He’s a former collegiate and arena football pro who’s now pretty prevalent networker, marketer and could be an additional contact for Tom. I don’t know what his business is, but I suspect Lewis knows people from tons of different verticals.
    4.) Is he starting his business in Texas? I think everything is more likely to succeed there? Right? :)

  • http://ninetodone.com/ Irina I

    Wow. Congratulations to Tom!

  • http://ninetodone.com/ Irina I

    Wow. Congratulations to Tom!

  • http://positivelypresent.typepad.com/ Positively Present

    Awww, what a nice post for your brother. Birthdays are the best and I hope T-Bone has great one! :)

  • http://positivelypresent.typepad.com Positively Present

    Awww, what a nice post for your brother. Birthdays are the best and I hope T-Bone has great one! :)

  • http://www.bensmithee.com/ Ben

    Hey Jenny!!

    great post! Congrats to your brother and let me know if he needs any help or contacts. Would be glad to help.

    BTW – like Ryan’s suggestion of TX…what a great place!!

  • http://www.bensmithee.com Ben

    Hey Jenny!!

    great post! Congrats to your brother and let me know if he needs any help or contacts. Would be glad to help.

    BTW – like Ryan’s suggestion of TX…what a great place!!

  • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/ Jenny

    Ryan – I always love your comments. Glad you liked the birthday gift! I’ll definitely have to check out Lewis Howes (I think there’s this handy tool called Google that lets you do things like that ;-) ) As for Texas – where’s that? That a city of some kind?

    Irina and PP – thanks for the shout-out! I’ll make sure to tell my brother you say congrats and Happy Birthday :D

    Ben! – Thanks so much for offering to help – I will definitely let Tom know you are available (and just a great person to know, in general :) ).

  • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org Jenny

    Ryan – I always love your comments. Glad you liked the birthday gift! I’ll definitely have to check out Lewis Howes (I think there’s this handy tool called Google that lets you do things like that ;-) ) As for Texas – where’s that? That a city of some kind?

    Irina and PP – thanks for the shout-out! I’ll make sure to tell my brother you say congrats and Happy Birthday :D

    Ben! – Thanks so much for offering to help – I will definitely let Tom know you are available (and just a great person to know, in general :) ).

  • http://www.crownology.blogspot.com/ Andrea

    Hi Jenny,
    Happy Birthday to your little (huge!) bro! :D
    I noticed a couple of days ago that you gave “Escape from Cubicle Nation” 5 stars on Goodreads…Do you feel this book would help any entrepreneur, or strictly those “cubical bound”?
    What other books do think would be useful for people who face obstacles in living life to the fullest? And do you believe books can really help people? I’d like to have some ideas about what to read next and what to recommend to others. (My mother works with single parents and is always asking about the titles I’ve read.)
    Thanks,
    Andrea

  • http://www.crownology.blogspot.com Andrea

    Hi Jenny,
    Happy Birthday to your little (huge!) bro! :D
    I noticed a couple of days ago that you gave “Escape from Cubicle Nation” 5 stars on Goodreads…Do you feel this book would help any entrepreneur, or strictly those “cubical bound”?
    What other books do think would be useful for people who face obstacles in living life to the fullest? And do you believe books can really help people? I’d like to have some ideas about what to read next and what to recommend to others. (My mother works with single parents and is always asking about the titles I’ve read.)
    Thanks,
    Andrea

  • http://thelifeoflisa.wordpress.com/ Lisa

    Happy Birthday to your little bro! :)

    His story sounds very inspiring and motivating! I wish him the best of luck in his new business venture.

  • http://thelifeoflisa.wordpress.com/ Lisa

    Happy Birthday to your little bro! :)

    His story sounds very inspiring and motivating! I wish him the best of luck in his new business venture.

  • http://www.lifewithoutpants.com/ Matt Cheuvront

    Great to hear your bro is doing big things (both of you are). I guess the Blake’s carry some pretty amazing genes!

  • http://www.lifewithoutpants.com Matt Cheuvront

    Great to hear your bro is doing big things (both of you are). I guess the Blake’s carry some pretty amazing genes!

  • http://www.budgetsaresexy.com/ J. Money

    haha, nice. love hearing how positive people can be during challenging times! you’re both rock stars for sure – hope you all have an f’ing great weekend!!

  • http://www.budgetsaresexy.com J. Money

    haha, nice. love hearing how positive people can be during challenging times! you’re both rock stars for sure – hope you all have an f’ing great weekend!!

  • Megan

    Jenny! This was such a sweet thing to do for your bro. I cannot wait to hear more about this business ordeal!!! We need to see each other soon! Since I’m in the family I need the details hehe!
    GO TOM :)

  • Megan

    Jenny! This was such a sweet thing to do for your bro. I cannot wait to hear more about this business ordeal!!! We need to see each other soon! Since I’m in the family I need the details hehe!
    GO TOM :)

  • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/ Jenny

    Hi Andrea,

    Sorry for the delay in l to your comment – I think “Escape from Cubicle Nation” would help if you were just getting started as an entrepreneur, or looking to shift the direction of your business. I do believe books can really help people, but that is just based on my personal experience because I LOVE books. I think everyone learns in different ways, and some people may want more hands on experiences (like workshops or coaching sessions). All of the books I really recommend are on my Amazon A-Store (slightly different than Good Reads, which is just a running log of books I read).

    I’ve been enjoying your GoodReads updates as well – keep ‘em coming! :D

    Jenny

  • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org Jenny

    Hi Andrea,

    Sorry for the delay in l to your comment – I think “Escape from Cubicle Nation” would help if you were just getting started as an entrepreneur, or looking to shift the direction of your business. I do believe books can really help people, but that is just based on my personal experience because I LOVE books. I think everyone learns in different ways, and some people may want more hands on experiences (like workshops or coaching sessions). All of the books I really recommend are on my Amazon A-Store (slightly different than Good Reads, which is just a running log of books I read).

    I’ve been enjoying your GoodReads updates as well – keep ‘em coming! :D

    Jenny

  • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/ Jenny

    Thanks Lisa!

  • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/ Jenny

    Thanks everyone for all the amazing comments! I made sure to pass them on to my little (okay HUGE) brother. :D

  • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org Jenny

    Thanks Lisa!

  • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org Jenny

    Thanks everyone for all the amazing comments! I made sure to pass them on to my little (okay HUGE) brother. :D

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