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	<title>Comments on: A note of compassion for those pesky things called FEELINGS</title>
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		<title>By: jennyblake</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/blog/2009/11/10/a-note-of-compassion-for-those-pesky-things-called-feelings/comment-page-1/#comment-3126</link>
		<dc:creator>jennyblake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 04:24:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rob - thanks so much for your thoughtful comment. Sometimes I forget to give&lt;br&gt;myself credit for being honest - and yet, when I do let myself feel the way&lt;br&gt;I want, I feel so relieved. As for the 10% - I&#039;d say it&#039;s definitely plus or&lt;br&gt;minus on any given day! Some days it feels like +90% ;-) Best of luck to you&lt;br&gt;too - and thanks again for stopping by.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rob &#8211; thanks so much for your thoughtful comment. Sometimes I forget to give<br />myself credit for being honest &#8211; and yet, when I do let myself feel the way<br />I want, I feel so relieved. As for the 10% &#8211; I&#39;d say it&#39;s definitely plus or<br />minus on any given day! Some days it feels like +90% <img src='http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Best of luck to you<br />too &#8211; and thanks again for stopping by.</p>
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		<title>By: jennyblake</title>
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		<dc:creator>jennyblake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 20:24:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rob - thanks so much for your thoughtful comment. Sometimes I forget to give&lt;br&gt;myself credit for being honest - and yet, when I do let myself feel the way&lt;br&gt;I want, I feel so relieved. As for the 10% - I&#039;d say it&#039;s definitely plus or&lt;br&gt;minus on any given day! Some days it feels like +90% ;-) Best of luck to you&lt;br&gt;too - and thanks again for stopping by.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rob &#8211; thanks so much for your thoughtful comment. Sometimes I forget to give<br />myself credit for being honest &#8211; and yet, when I do let myself feel the way<br />I want, I feel so relieved. As for the 10% &#8211; I&#39;d say it&#39;s definitely plus or<br />minus on any given day! Some days it feels like +90% <img src='http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Best of luck to you<br />too &#8211; and thanks again for stopping by.</p>
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		<title>By: rob</title>
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		<dc:creator>rob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 02:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>solid post. I agree. totally. Give yourself credit for being honest with yourself. The fact that you really want this in your life is not a contradiction to your happiness with who you are everyday,  but instead and as you point out, it is consistent with your desire to share, grow, put your big heart into play. It&#039;s quite obvious you are not someone who needs to splash color in a bored life. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I am jealous you got it down to 10% though.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;and good luck :) !</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>solid post. I agree. totally. Give yourself credit for being honest with yourself. The fact that you really want this in your life is not a contradiction to your happiness with who you are everyday,  but instead and as you point out, it is consistent with your desire to share, grow, put your big heart into play. It&#39;s quite obvious you are not someone who needs to splash color in a bored life. </p>
<p>I am jealous you got it down to 10% though.</p>
<p>and good luck <img src='http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  !</p>
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		<title>By: Elle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:16:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such a wonderful perspective. Thank you for your insight, Jenny. Desire for companionship is a strength...it is not a weakness! 

Why do I think being in a relationship is so great? For one, it really helped me cut down on my binge drinking ;)That&#039;s all I can think of for now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a wonderful perspective. Thank you for your insight, Jenny. Desire for companionship is a strength&#8230;it is not a weakness! </p>
<p>Why do I think being in a relationship is so great? For one, it really helped me cut down on my binge drinking <img src='http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> That&#8217;s all I can think of for now.</p>
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		<title>By: Elle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such a wonderful perspective. Thank you for your insight, Jenny. Desire for companionship is a strength...it is not a weakness! 

Why do I think being in a relationship is so great? For one, it really helped me cut down on my binge drinking ;)That&#039;s all I can think of for now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a wonderful perspective. Thank you for your insight, Jenny. Desire for companionship is a strength&#8230;it is not a weakness! </p>
<p>Why do I think being in a relationship is so great? For one, it really helped me cut down on my binge drinking <img src='http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> That&#8217;s all I can think of for now.</p>
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		<title>By: Dealing With Others: The Complexity of Caring — The-Postgrad.com — Career and Life Development</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dealing With Others: The Complexity of Caring — The-Postgrad.com — Career and Life Development</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 19:26:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] for yourself what it means to be friends with and express care for others. Jenny Blake at the blog Life After College poses the idea that the expression of care through the overflow of your own feeling is part of what [...]</description>
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