On Generosity and Gold Dust: Lessons from a Mentor (& Giveaway of Her Book)

Dr. Susan Biali

Two years ago, when my parents and friends were my only blog subscribers and I had just started coaching, a woman named Susan Biali commented on my blog with a note of encouragement.

When I saw that she was a flamenco-dancing doctor, life-coach, author AND speaker who split her time living between Mexico and Canada? I almost fell out of my chair. She was (and still is) LIVING. THE. DREAM.  A version of my dream. The one in which I become an author-speaker-life coach-entrepreneur-extraordinaire; inspiring others while living a balanced, healthy, passionate life.

Susan has done more than inspire me these last two years. She has shown me the true meaning of generosity. Generosity of spirit. Generosity of time. Generosity of giving people one of the greatest gifts in the world: believing in them, and lifting them up when times get tough.

  • Generosity is having a big full life, and sending a note to a no-name blogger.
  • Generosity is writing one year later, sending that same blogger an email just to say hello, this time bursting from the seams with praise, support and encouragement.
  • Generosity is agreeing to a phone call in the middle of a full schedule of speaking, traveling, writing and publishing a book.
  • Generosity is proactively offering to have MONTHLY calls to support that blogger’s dreams, even while working so hard on her own.
  • Generosity is sending two copies of her new book with hand-written notes on the inside, then making time for a call right in the middle of the book promotion frenzy.
  • Generosity is offering help…even when the other person doesn’t quite know how to ask.

Don’t forget what a gift your time and attention is – and the difference it can make in someone else’s life.

Live a Life You Love: 7 Steps to a Healthier, Happier, More Passionate You

In her book, Live a Life You Love, Susan says “People first, life later.” She means it, and her generosity with me is proof of that.

Susan’s book – aside from leaving me brimming with pride and sheer joy for her success – has lifted me up after a physically and emotionally exhausting week. I picked it up and couldn’t put it down. It felt like Susan was sitting right next to me, reminding me of all the things that truly matter in life.

From the last chapter: “Under all the stress, fear, failures, and wrong choices you might have made in your life, you know who you really are, and how you’re meant to live. I hope I’ve successfully reminded you of how totally original you are, how worthy of love you are, how brilliant and wonderful your body is, and what you you need to thrive.”

Susan achieves her mission with flying colors in this book. She is vulnerable, relatable and wise. Her “gold dust” (our word for radiating joy and energy) sparkles on every page, and her generosity – which extends far beyond this book – has been a true gift to me (and many others).

With that, I am thrilled to share a signed copy with one of you! Just leave me a comment by the end of the day on Sunday, and I’ll pick a winner through Random.org early next week.

As Susan says, “May you live a life rich in meaning, health and happiness!” Wherever you are starting from this week, may you take one step closer to all three.

Happy Friday everyone :)

25 comments

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  • Anonymous

    I kind of needed this post today. This week has felt like the sky is falling down on me and this post gave me a little perspective. Thanks :}

    Meg
    http://www.megsmumbo.blogspot.com

  • http://lachilenguita.blogspot.com/ Tyffanie

    Ohhhhh! Sounds like a great book, I'd love a copy!!! I took your advice and read Zen and the Art of Happiness and loved it….it really changed my outlook!

  • Cheryl D.

    This sounds like a fantastic book!! I'd love to own a copy!!

  • http://www.JenRem.com/ JenRem

    I've heard good things about this book (yes, I've heard of it!). Hopefully I get picked as I'd love to check it out.

  • http://allmendingerenterprises.com/ Brad Allmendinger

    Where do I sign up? Oh, right here? Okay.

    Seriously sounds like a fantastic book. Assuming I don't win, I might look into obtaining a copy anyway.

  • Stacy

    Gold Dust….love it!

  • http://www.caitlindonohue.blogspot.com/ Caitlin

    Great message and looks like a fantastic book!

  • http://thriveable.com/ Jenny Ferry

    Very cool! And the love and support she has shown you is nothing short of miraculous. Completely thrilled that your lives have intersected. :)

  • Michelle K.

    It's so refreshing to know there are people who are able to balance it all. I hope I can also truly achieve this balance someday among my friends, family, husband?, work, fitness, and living a balanced, healthy,and happy life.

  • http://twitter.com/erinsmind erinsmind

    Reading about your mentor and her generosity made me smile and think of my own. Thanks!

  • http://www.lifeschocolates.com sameve

    How awesome that you've had someone to encourage you along the way. She sounds like an amazing woman! Every time I read one of your posts, I'm even more impressed by your drive and passion, Jenny. I know you'll do great things :)

  • http://www.susanbiali.com/ Dr. Susan Biali

    Hi Jenny!
    Well, you have totally floored me with this one – I don't really know what to say other than that this is just one more piece of proof that we must always go with our instincts. I had no idea that I would have such an impact on your life, and was simply following an instinct to connect with you and give you encouragement. Aren't we just the luckiest people in the world, to have the opportunity to lift up so many others? I don't think there's a better job on earth.

    Just so you know, I am the way I am because of my mentor. A couple of years ago I went for the first time to a National Speaker's Association (NSA) conference, and when one of the main speakers (a veteran NSA member) mentioned that he had an orphanage in Mexico, I went up to him after to ask him about it. He sent me an email to follow-up and offered to mentor me via monthly calls, which he has done for almost two years now. I wouldn't be where I am without him. NSA members frequently talk about “the spirit of Cavett Robert” (NSA's founder), which refers to the importance of sharing knowledge with, guiding and inspiring newcomers who are just starting out. He passed the torch to me, and I pass it to you.

    It is such an honor and a privilege to have the opportunity to contribute to the career of such a brilliant, generous person such as you. You have come so far and will go much, much farther still. I am the lucky one! (and so are all your readers)

    Cheering you on as always (and throwing celebratory handfuls of gold dust in the air),
    Susan

  • http://www.smallhandsbigideas.blogspot.com Grace Boyle

    Oh how absolutely beautiful. I love hearing other people's mentors and as a certified bibliophile, I'm such a book geek :)

    Thanks for offering the giveaway and letting me know about Susan. Her passion and ideas inspire me already!

  • http://twitter.com/mkhbuckeye Megan Holcomb

    She sounds absolutely amazing! I would love to read what she has to say!

  • Jill

    I've read several of your book recommendations and this looks like another great one!

  • juanyb

    I want to get my manos on this book!
    Having recently let myself return to school (in my mid-40s), I been reading your blog for about a year! Thank you for your inspiration.

  • Clara

    Would love to read this book. Thanks for making it available as a giveaway.

  • ShannonVW

    Absolutely love the quote from the last chapter, so true. You're lucky to have her, Jenny.

  • Rachel

    This book sounds wonderful! I always love reading your posts. :)

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  • http://www.moneyaftercollege.com/ Jocelyn

    Jenny, thanks for your review of this book! I've been looking at it for a while, so now I'm definitely going to put it on my 'Books to Read' list. I definitely feel like I could use some more inspiration! Take care.

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  • http://lachilenguita.blogspot.com/ Tyffanie

    Did anyone ever win this book??????????

  • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org jennyblake

    Hey Tyffanie! Thanks for checking – yes – Clara won (announced in my
    follow-up post here:
    http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/2010/03/03…).
    Have a great weekend :)

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