It’s as if you’re pounding on the massive doors of the kingdom of your wildest dreams. At first lightly, even respectfully, then, losing patience, louder and louder. You pray. You plead. You beg. You ask. You cry. You wail. And just on the other side of the door, your faithful, adoring subjects silently writhe, some quietly [...]
November 2010
Yep, I’ve gone and templateized getting over someone. Don’t judge me. More on that in a few minutes. First, a lesson and some thoughts on a crazy emotional love-related roller-coaster called Limerence. What is Limerence? Hint: if Love and Lust had a baby… If Love and Lust had a baby, they would name her Limerence. [...]
I DID IT!!! WE DID IT!!! Holy shit. (Yes, I just swore on my blog. No, I don’t do it often. Yes, it’s because I’m still picking my jaw up off the floor.) In three years of blogging, I have never posted two days in a row. But yesterday’s post is 100% trumped by the [...]
Re-entering the “real world” after 16-days of actual rainbows and sunshine in Santa Barbara was a major shock to my system, as I alluded to in Part 1: “I’ve been working harder every day but feeling like I am falling farther and farther behind. I’ve felt exhausted to the core; disappointed and helpless as I watched [...]
I waited a week after returning home to write this post in hopes that putting my experience into words would be a little easier. If anything, it feels harder. The sixteen days felt simultaneously like a lifetime and a fleeting moment. This post feels like a karaoke rendition of my favorite song – there is [...]
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