10 Questions to Help You Stop Thinking and Start DOING (with template!)

Chimpanzee ThinkingThis post is going to be absolutely worthless to you if you don’t actually take action (hence, the title). If you’re busy or not interested in taking at least 10 minutes to reflect and answer some questions about something you care about, feel free to skip it, star it, or come back later.

For those of you still with me: start by grabbing a pen and paper or use the handy template I created for this post.

Now for some context: this is a re-post from Elysa Rice’s December’s Top Tens in 2010 Series. There are tons of great bloggers submitting posts on everything from de-stressing to reasons you don’t need a new job. I highly recommend you give GenPink (and the series) a visit — especially since Elysa is an all-around awesome person and GenY blogging pioneer.

10 Questions to help you stop thinking and start DOING

Close your eyes for a minute and think of a problem, a tough decision or a big question that you are weighing and would like an answer to. Set aside 15-30 minutes to reflect on the questions below, either in your head or on paper (I use Google Docs — and even created a template for you). You might also focus on one question each day or week – let each one ruminate over time, then jot down notes as various responses pop up.

Do you have a topic yet?

You might be tempted to just skim this post and pretend you have a topic, even though you know it’s fuzzy and you’re just sort of going through the motions (we all do it). Before you keep going, really think of something. Don’t keep reading until you have a topic or idea in mind that is so-big-it’s-scary (but also exciting).

Now for the fun part – let’s get to work!

  1. When you think of [topic], what are you most excited about?
  2. How does this [topic] fit in with your vision of your highest self?
  3. What is your goal in this area? Now double it. What is the version of the goal that is so big you are afraid to admit (even to yourself) for fear of failure?
  4. What’s holding you back / What are you afraid of?
  5. What support do you need to move forward?
  6. What one next step would make the biggest impact to move your forward (or help with your decision)?
  7. What would achieving this get you?
  8. Close your eyes and ask each major decision-making system for advice: What does your head say? What does your heart say? What does your gut say? How can you reconcile the three? (Okay so I cheated and combined four questions in one)
  9. Dig even deeper. What do you really want?
  10. What are you waiting for?

After you’ve reflected on the questions above, take a minute to answer the bonus million dollar question:

Based on your answers above, what are you willing to take ACTION on in the next week?
Leave your answer in the comments below!

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The Anti-Resume – Career Development Video Interview:

Mike Krass is hosting a great interview series on his blog, The Anti Resume, in which I discuss career development tips and pitfalls. Some of the questions covered in the ~15 minute video (full transcript also available):

  • Given your work with the website and what you have done professionally at Google, what is your take on career development?
  • If you don’t have a team or are in between jobs, how can you guide the goals you want to set to help you take steps to get where you want to go career wise?
  • As to what you have done professionally and with your personal work, what is one piece of advice that you would give to positively influence someone’s career choices?
  • What is one piece of advice that would negatively influence someone’s career decisions?
  • What is one great tactic you would suggest to use to successfully build relationships?

Click here to watch and share your thoughts!

  • emmysuh

    The cool thing about this series of questions is that I thought about them and then did a little dance, because with the exception of a few small things, I think I am as on track as I can be right now. Long term goals are…long, but I like knowing I have my eyes on the prize and am taking baby steps!

    • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org jennyblake

      Emily – that’s AMAZING! Huge congrats for being so on track with everything
      - I love that you reacted with a little happy dance (even if just in your
      head) – taking baby steps is everything! Awesome that you have the courage
      to just go for it, even though the long-term goals can seem really far off.

      Now I’ll go do a happy dance for you… :D

  • http://www.2knowmyself.com Farouk

    i Like how your advice are practical and applicable
    keep it uup Jenny

    • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org jennyblake

      Thanks Farouk!

    • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org jennyblake

      Thanks Farouk!

  • http://unlockyourdollar.blogspot.com/ unlock your dollar

    Jenny,

    Thank you for the great template. Action is definitely much better than inaction, so I hope that it will help me to move forward sooner rather than later.

    • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org jennyblake

      Thanks for the note! Glad you find the template helpful…hopefully as you
      let the answers settle/grow you will get even more ideas to move forward.
      Keep me posted on everything!

  • Meredyth

    Hi Jenny!

    I’m a new reader of yours, and I’m so happy to see this reflection into action exercise. I am a recent college grad, and in all of the craziness that comes with adjusting to “the real world,” I’m finally discovering the importance of figuring out EXACTLY what I want- not just what employers are looking for. Your exercises and templates have been really helpful for me to stay organized and also begin to prioritize my goals as they relate to my career.

    So thanks a lot, and I can’t wait for your book- congratulations!

    -Meredyth

    • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org jennyblake

      Hey Meredyth!

      So sorry for the long delay in replying to your comment. I just wanted to
      say thanks so much for stopping by Life After College – and congrats on your
      recent graduation! There’s definitely a lot to figure it out, so it’s great
      that you’re taking the time to think about YOUR biggest goals too.

      Hope you have a wonderful New Years celebration! Looking forward to keeping
      in touch :)

      Jenny

  • mpringleGTC

    Jenny I recently started following your Life after college blog and I must say that I am impressed. I am 56 years old and two years ago, due to the crisis with the economy I decided to go back to college. I am four classes from graduation and earning my degree with honors. I am so excited and happy about the new course in my life…the comments and advice in your blog will truly be helpful. Keep up the good work!

    • http://www.lifeaftercollege.org jennyblake

      Thank you so much Mel! It’s great to meet you – and I’m honored that you’ve
      spent time on my site checking out the posts. HUGE congrats on being four
      classes away from graduation!! What a huge, monumental accomplishment. And
      with honors to boot :) I hope you have a fun celebration lined up for when
      you finish!

      Really looking forward to keeping in touch — thanks so much for sticking
      around :)

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