Share It is said that bloggers, coaches and advice-givers dole out wisdom that they themselves need to hear. Consider this one of those posts. I am learning right along with you. And this post might not be for everyone – so if it doesn’t apply to you – kudos! The Message Stop auditioning for other [...]
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Share I posted last week about my dating (or more accurately non-dating) frustration. Normally I wouldn’t post twice in a row on the same topic, but I’ve felt unsettled this week. Like I’d left something unsaid in that post. It’s the part about feelings. About FEELING things. About being annoyed or frustrated with myself when [...]
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Share Dating is a roller coaster. Bad dates. Good dates. Damn, if only I could get A date. Good nights. Bad nights. At 26, am I already older than everyone in this f*@!#%g bar?! nights. Total, unshakeable “I’m fabulous” confidence (fellas: fill in the equivalent manly descriptor). Vulnerable, I’m not good enough, what am I [...]
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Share Editor’s Note: I was blown away by the response and diversity of opinions on my post last month: Dating – Do You Go For Quantity or Quality? With 43 responses, it was by far my most commented-on post to-date. Beyond the comments, the post sparked MANY conversations over email, phone, and in my head. [...]
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Share I’ve been loathe to cover details of my dating life on my blog for fear that my FH (future husband) will read them and get scared away. Well, the time has come for me to share, so the future hubby is just going to have to be charmed by my transparency. The confession I [...]
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Share Editor’s Note: This post is written by Jeremy Orr with collaboration and editing from me. Jeremy does not have a blog (yet!) but you can follow his often witty and generally hilarious tweets here. Jeremy is a good friend I met in high school through the CA Youth & Government program. If you want [...]
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